My name is Thijs. I’m Dutch and have lived most of my life between the Netherlands and China. 
I love traveling, and I started this blog to share what’s actually useful when exploring a place. Not endless lists, and not the “everything is perfect” style you see on most travel blogs. The beauty, the charm, and also the things I don’t like.

Naples, Pompeii & Amalfi: 2000-Year-Old People & The Tourist Bus

Naples was always high on my list, mostly because of Pompeii and its story. The idea, note this was in my mind, that I could see an ancient Roman city completely intact. But even more importantly, that I could see 2000 year old people standing, sitting, sleeping in whatever position they were in when the volcano hit them. It fascinated me.

Plaster casts of the 2000-year-old victims in Pompeii

How I imagined Pompeii to be. (Ai generated)

They’d be covered in hardened ash but would still be them! At least that’s how I imagined it. See the AI image, that’s what I had in my head. Was it really like that?

A daughter’s birthday gift to enjoy myself

Sometimes you need an extra reason to go somewhere. My daughter was about to turn 11, and we had some extra time in the Netherlands before flying back to Shanghai. So I came up with an idea.

They say the best birthday gifts are the ones you enjoy yourself. So I sold her on the “2000 year old people.” And if that wasn’t convincing enough, I also threw in a day trip to the Amalfi Coast and showed her pictures. That did the job, and off we went.

Naples: Half a Day

After checking into the quiet, well located Palazzo Alabardieri Hotel and grabbing some pizza, we had half a day in Naples. We came for Pompeii and Amalfi, but we stayed in Naples. How to see as much as you can in such a short time? Well, don’t listen to me, listen to an 11 year old! It turns out my daughter had just the right idea. I suggested we walk with Google Maps, she suggested we hop on the blue and red line tourist buses. Initially I refused to go on city tour buses, but she won the argument.

My daughter on the city tour bus in Naples

The blue and red lines brought us to every corner of Naples in less than three hours. It gave us a glimpse of different neighbourhoods and how the city was structured. I saw beautiful villas, gardens, sea views and palaces. And after we left the bus we felt calm, having seen so much. So my daughter saved the day. When one has little time, choosing the obvious makes sense.

Pompeii: Seeing the 2000-Year-Old People

On our first day the excitement would start. It turned out we would actually see 2000 year old “people” due to an unexpected twist; just not in the way we imagined.

We met our tour group at the Naples train station. It was a clear, hot day (14 August). When we arrived at the Pompeii entrance I was a bit disappointed at first, as the entrance looked underwhelming and it was crowded with tourists. But once we got inside, that feeling faded away.

Pompeii

Without getting into too much detail, the visit was well worth it. But it’s important to set expectations right. It was not nearly as intact as I imagined. I thought the whole city would be preserved but it’s a mix between ruined and half-intact. Still, there was enough to feel the magic: ancient houses, shops, parks, baths, and more. Every place has a story. It gives you a glimpse of life in a rich ancient Roman city.

The most intact part was, interestingly, an ancient brothel. With ancient sexual paintings on the wall and the rooms and bed structures still visible. I wondered if my daughter knew what she was walking into…She never mentioned it, luckily..

Ancient frescoes inside the Lupanare brothel in Pompeii
Painting in the 2000 year old Brothel

The 2000 year old people

Now to the ancient people, the main reason for coming here. Sadly, they were not what I imagined. They had plaster bodies inside glass displays, replicas of the holes the real bodies left in the volcanic ash. So we would not meet 2000 year old people that day. Or would we? Fate would take a turn on us.

Mount Vesuvius on fire & Herculaneum

That afternoon Mount Vesuvius was literally on fire, with smoke visible in the distance. Our guide had to improvise and took us to a smaller “mini Pompeii” called Herculaneum. Herculaneum was also destroyed by the eruption of Mount Vesuvius in 79 AD, but it’s more intact as it was buried by pyroclastic flows. So it led us to an interesting and unexpected second half of the day. We saw beautiful houses with gardens, also shops, and even went into cave-like structures that were used as swimming pools. All in all it was more vivid and alive than Pompeii, and much less busy.

Herculaneum Garden

But there was still something dramatic to come. Apparently, by the time the volcano erupted, Herculaneum was still connected to the sea. After hearing the eruption, at least 330 to 340 people died trying to escape the city, mostly in the boat sheds by the water while waiting for rescue. The skeletons are still there in the sheds for tourists to see, and our tour guide took us there. A bit dramatic, and not in the way we imagined, but we still got to see 2000 year old “people.” ….

The poor people that did not make the escape from the Volcano 72 AD

The Amalfi Coast

One of the more beautiful coastline rides I know, and it was a long time ago, so forgive me if my memory is blurred, is the drive from Nice to Monte Carlo in France. At one point I remember being high up in the steep rocks, the full Mediterranean filling my eyesight, with Monaco below. Coastlines with high, steep cliffs and villages or cities are always the most beautiful.

Amalfi gave me something similar. After driving out from Naples for about an hour, we were high in the rocks overlooking the Tyrrhenian Sea and villages like Positano. It was a stunning sight and later I realized it was the highlight (sometimes this comes right at the start) of our day.

View of the Amalfi Coast cliffs and sea
Amalfi Coast line, next time I will look at it from the sea

The villages themselves were not really “villages,” but more like single streets filled with tourists and shops. So our hope was on the tour guide, who was organising a boat trip to see the Amalfi Coast from the sea. According to her the best way to do it and we believed her. But unfortunately, the other people in our tour group didn’t want to put up the cash. 

So we were sent out into the next busy “one street” village full of of tourists and heat. Luckily my daughter (there she came to the rescue again) found a way into a very quiet and charming courtyard overlooking the sea. So we sat there waiting for our bus to leave.

Naples & Pompeii: What stayed with me?

Quite a lot looking back at it now. Naples (yes, from the city tour bus ;), the beautiful Amalfi coastline, Pompeii, and even more Herculaneum and its stories. And on a personal level, it was a fun trip to take with my daughter, some bonding, some history. But what I really learned is that the best travel discoveries are the ones you never planned, often thanks to an 11-year-old on a red tourist bus 😉

For another European city trip, read about my time in Prague: Not Elegant, But Full of Wonder

Istanbul: European Elegance Meets Middle Eastern Mystery

I was in my native the Netherlands. I was bored, uninspired and needed something. So I forced myself to book a trip. I was looking for something different. Something mysterious and adventurous. Istanbul came to mind.

View of the historic old city of Istanbul with minarets
Stylized image of old city

Not as familiar as Paris or Rome and that made it so interesting. Maybe it was the old James Bond movies that put the city in my head: adventure, mystique, romance. A place you always want to go, but somehow never make it. This time I was going to do it. Would it get me out of my uninspired state and bring the excitement back?

I didn’t know what to expect. Would it be chaotic like Jakarta or Bangkok? Would it be safe? My mother even warned me about this.

So when a city feels full of unknowns, I fall back on one strategy: book a comfortable hotel in a good location. I chose the Ritz Carlton, solid reviews, decent price, and not in the overly touristy area. Beşiktaş, on the European side, felt more like where people actually lived.

So there I went. Into a potentially unsafe city, but still feeling safe. The start was good: my taxi driver even stopped at a gas station to offer me a drink. Suspicious at first, I realized it was genuine, my first taste of how alive and open people in this city could be.

After chatting mostly about football, I arrived at the Ritz. It was everything I hoped: warm, welcoming, impeccable service.

Taksim Square & Gezi Park: The First Stroll

Crowds walking on Istiklal Street near Taksim Square
Istiklal street in the afternoon

I didn’t really plan much or do research. Sometimes that’s better; it takes away the “must see, must do” feeling you get when you just arrive. After checking into my hotel in Beşiktaş, I decided to just take a walk. I went up Asker Ocagi Street and ended up on Mete Street, a tree-lined road that leads to Taksim Square through Taksim Gezi Park (I love any kind of parks). It felt lively and local, and I started walking there every morning for a cup of Turkish black tea.

Behind Taksim Square is Sıraselviler Road, another lively street with shops and small tree-lined side streets that are worth checking out. On the square itself I saw something new for me: a big mosque, the first one I’d ever seen in real life. Impressive, and also a reminder that I was in a different world.

After that first day (a little exhausting but exciting) I was ready to see much more of the city.

Topkapi & Dolmabahce: Living Like a Sultan

There is something about the word Sultan. It feels like emperor or king but with even more opulence. I’m not sure what it is. Maybe it’s just my imagination. Or maybe it’s the word Harem ;)?

Dolmabahce Palace

Well the closest I’ve ever got to feel like how it is to live like a Sultan is to visit palaces. I ended up visiting both the Dolmabahce Palace and the Topkapi Palace museum. They had about a room for anything. Some designs were beautiful and it really shows you how these people lived. And yes, there were Harem quarters. The most visited it appears. Apparently I am not the only one 🙂

The Bosphorus & Bebek: The European Vibe

In my hotel I was chatting with the staff and that person said. “If you do anything go to Bebek in the morning and just walk around”. So I went there in the morning. And I felt in Switzerland. Classy sophisticated cafes and restaurants, streets and more. So unexpected in Istanbul.

The waterfront promenade in the upscale Bebek neighborhood
Bebek in the morning

Then later that day I joined a boat tour on the Bosphorus. With President Erdogan being in the Besiktas stadium next to the hotel no cars were allowed and we had to walk to the boat at the river. It was a beautiful sunset afternoon and they took us everywhere on the beautiful Bosphorus. The highlight was certainly the guide with funny anecdotes and explanations. We saw villas worth over 100 million USD each, opulent nightclubs, Palaces, Mosques, history sites and more.

View of the Bosphorus strait from a boat tour
On the Bophorus

Then there was one place on my mind. I remember Sean Connery in From Russia With Love being in some underground water structure. Which was I now learned the Basilica Cistern. An underground reservoir from the Roman times. Yes Istanbul has so much history, from the Greeks, to the Romans to the Ottomans. It’s what makes this place fascinating. And it was fascinating. The beautiful Roman architecture with the magical lights. It felt like I stepped back in time.

The illuminated columns of the underground Basilica Cistern
 Basilica Cistern: Roman History Underground

Hagia Sophia & Galata Tower: The Letdowns

As they say in life; knowing what not to do is more important than knowing what to do. Hagia Sophia sounded grand in theory but felt messy in reality. The ground floor was closed, and the mix of church, mosque, and museum made it feel like it couldn’t decide what it wanted to be.

Galata Tower : Galata Tower didn’t have much to see, and everything was too modernly decorated

Not everything can be magical and that’s what makes the good parts shine even more 😉

Next up: not attractions, but food. Plant-based food, something I always try to hunt for when traveling.

Plant Based food in Istanbul 🌱   

To eat something other than hummus and falafel, I checked out the most popular vegan restaurant on Happy Cow: Vegan Dükkan Lokanta. Well, what can I say… there was a street cat sleeping on my table, and it clearly had no plans to leave. I’m a bit afraid of cats (thanks to my mother), and this one was covering the whole table. To my surprise, the restaurant owner didn’t seem to understand why I wasn’t too happy about it. A good start is everything, right?

A street cat sleeping on a table at a vegan restaurant
The cat almost ruining my dinner

After we got the cat to go somewhere else I ordered the Tofu Katsu (finally tofu, protein yeah) which was decent. I guess with a strong flavoured curry sauce you can never go wrong. The street and neighbourhood was charming so if you are into plant based do check it out. Just don’t mind a cat on your table ;).

How did Istanbul feel overall?

I would say a mix between European elegance and Middle Eastern mystery. It felt good. And much less chaotic than I thought. And as with every city with a river running through it, the Bosphorus strait gave it a special kind of feeling. Above all it felt lively and adventurous.

Also it was safe. My most scary thing was the cat on my food table so that says enough. And safety is what you need to enjoy the things I describe above.

Lastly the people felt welcoming and helpful. And full of life.

My Istanbul Pocket Guide

  • Stay in Ritz Carlton in Besiktas or another hotel close to Taksim Square
  • Go see Bebek, early morning
  • Must do a boat tour on the Bosporus, Ritz Carlton has a great one
  • Blue mosque over the Haga Sophia
  • Visit the Basilica Cistern
  • Visit vibrant Kadikoy on the Asian side if you’re curious
  • Visit Dolmabahce Palace and the Topkapi Palace
  • Check out the Galataport if you want modern shopping and dinner vibes

For a different take on the region, read my reviews of the Gulf cities:

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